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Love at first sight?

Do you think that love has a general defintion which everybody agrees with? And do you think, that you have to be in love before you decide to marry someone? Well, the majority of the western people would answer with 'yes' but indians don't think so. "In India marriage comes first, then love, whereas in a western love relationship marriage often is the end of love". For indians this quote is totally normal as well as arranged marriages. People in india don't search their future partner on their own, mostly the parents do it with success(?). They don't know each other for more than one day though they decide to marry that person and to live the rest of their life together. Maybe this idea is not as bad as the most people in the west think. Our parents know their children better then others do, they know what is the best for us and they also want the best for us. A lot of people would say that parents do to always know their children better then others because they might have conflicts in their family or something alike but there is also to say that these marriages are not forced. The children take the biggest part in an arranged mariage cuz if they're not agreed with the partner which the parents have chosen than the parents also can't force them to marry nevertheless. If we compare the rate of divorce in europe or america with the rate of divorce in india you can see that the rate in the west is a lot higher then in india. If you are in a relationship you already know the person from memory but indians start to know each other after mariage. I think this makes everything more interesting. You don't know each other though you take the risk and choose to live the rest of your life with a 'stranger'. Everyone has a different opinion of this tradition and thats why i think that everyone should decide on their own if they would dare theirself to mary someone which their parents choose. -valentina
24.12.14 21:29
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